tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30064018247971239732024-03-13T11:46:51.382-07:00Elephants RumbleOne of the Girlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04859100915720155996noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006401824797123973.post-71569348178011237042013-05-19T14:46:00.001-07:002016-05-22T16:56:17.246-07:00Follow Your BlissDuring a long commute last week, I found myself reflecting on a birthday post on a friend's Facebook wall. It contained the usual wish but included 'Follow your Bliss'. That seems like such a simple phrase, but is so profound when you stop to really think about it.<br />
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Numerous birthdays in this journey of life has given insight, or an understanding of timing and the things that really matter, and I found myself pondering, 'what is your Bliss?' <br />
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My bliss will obviously include family, friends etc., but what is it that gives me a fire in my belly, the something that touches my soul? What is so natural and such a good fit it's like breathing, effortless. What is it I hanker after? <br />
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Some would call me an Empath, some an Activist. While both are true to a greater or lesser extent, I call myself a champion of causes, protector of the underdog, a nurturer of those who hurt and mission driven to make a positive difference in this journey called life.<br />
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The Bliss, and life begins in Africa. The Motherland. The beauty, the poverty, the wars, the struggles, the politics. The lack - lack of safety, lack of refuge, lack of shelter, lack of water - and abundance - of poaching. If current trends continue elephants will be extinct by 2022 or 2025, depending on the source of the research. Extinct. Gone. Forever. Our children and our grandchildren will learn of elephants and rhinos from pictures in books. What poor stewards we have been of our miraculous world.<br />
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My South African family know that trips home center around them, in the bush. The two go hand-in-hand. I am blessed because they understand the need. Some will call me selfish I'm sure, but there is no desire to mingle in the rush and bustle of the busyness of life in the sprawling city. It's time in the bush that feeds my soul - the adventurous warthog, the buzz of the cicada beetles, the rustle as buck move through the trees, identifying the dung on the road hoping to see your favorite animal. It's time in the bush that gets me to realign and go deep within myself - and that gives me momentum to face everyday life, and the challenges it brings. Perhaps Wayne Cordeiro said it best "Solitude is a chosen separation for refining your soul. Isolation is what you crave when you neglect the first."<br />
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African isolation refines my soul. <br />
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As a Scatterling of Africa (credit to Johnny Clegg) the earthy wild Africa, and my Bliss, is still available to me. The wildlife may not be. Poaching is a very real threat to the extinction of elephants and rhinos - the slaughtering horrific. If you have a way to become involved to fight against this tragedy, I urge you to. Below are a couple of links to sign petitions and adopt elephant or rhino orphans, <br />
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<a href="http://www.bloodyivory.org/petition">http://www.bloodyivory.org/petition</a><br />
http://www.iworry.org/<br />
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Adopt/foster baby elephants and rhinos<br />
http://www.sheldrickwildlifetrust.org/asp/fostering.asp <br />
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You don't visit or 'go' to Africa, you experience it, inhale it - it becomes part of you. Plan a trip - until you go you won't know.<br />
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<i>When you’ve acquired a taste for dust, </i><br />
<i>The scent of our first rain,</i><br />
<i>You’re hooked for life on Africa,</i><br />
<i>And you’ll not be right again</i><br />
<i>Till you can watch the setting moon</i><br />
<i>And hear the jackals bark</i><br />
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<i>When you long to see the Elephants,</i><br />
<i>Or to hear the coucal’s song,</i><br />
<i>When the moonrise sets your blood on fire,</i><br />
<i>You’ve been away too long.</i><br />
<i>It’s time to cut the traces loose</i><br />
<i>And let you’re heart go free</i><br />
<i>Beyond that far horizon,</i><br />
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Perhaps 'my bliss' may just become yours too.One of the Girlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04859100915720155996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006401824797123973.post-42709463203693718062013-04-05T02:06:00.000-07:002016-05-22T17:00:40.791-07:005,113 Days<div style="text-align: justify;">
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Home. South Africa. The country the furthest South on the continent of Africa. A country of heritage and cultures as rich as the red clay earth and as vast as the wide open skies. And misperception. </div>
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South Africa is a land of mixed cultures and peoples. To an outsider, a country perceived to be divided by color - blacks against whites, and vice versa. What we are, is a cosmopolitan melting pot of many colors, many traditions and many nationalities. Portuguese, Lebanese, Italian, American, (East) Indian, Jews, Greek, Arabs, Chinese (and more)......all of whom have their own little piece of the South Africa they call 'home'.</div>
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The years of Apartheid are well known, world wide. This can never be undone. It's complicated. The country had no TV - at all, until 1976, nor freedom of the press, both of which resulted in life in South Africa being censored. It is only in the last 15+ years that details of the injustices have become known, and they should never be repeated.</div>
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As the first 'one man one vote' election approached in 1994 after Nelson Mandela's release, South Africans prayed for peaceful change and the sharing of power. The world watched and waited as lines of South Africans, of all colors, stood for hours in the sun to cast their vote. I was there, black and white waiting together. Offering one another shade, or a can of soda. Respectfully. Orderly. Were we all wondering if changes in government would result in Civil War? Despite all the fears, we didn't have bloodshed - the first indication that this was positive, despite our own individual fears and insecurities. </div>
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We are a nation that is fiercely patriotic. Especially when it comes to sport. You only needed to see or be at the Rugby World Cup Final in 1995, just a mere year after the abolition of Apartheid, to witness the new South African flag waved by blacks and whites and every shade in between, singing Shosoloza and proudly cheering <i><b>our</b></i> Rugby team on to win the World Title. When I sat down to watch Invictus, I wasn't expecting to cry, but there I was, home again, reliving every moment and every emotion! </div>
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We are lovers of Rugby, Cricket, Sunday afternoon braais (pronounced 'brr eyes') otherwise known as a BBQ, served with crisp rolls and every variety of salad, (All South African men are A+ braaiers - it's a fine art!) Biltong (dried meat - like jerky, only better). Boerewors (handmade sausage) green Cream Soda, delicious Chocolate, Milk Tart, Vetkoek, and Biscuits (cookies) of every kind. <br />
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And then there's that unmistakable accent. Nothing can describe that warm fuzzy feeling when you're somewhere else in the world and hear it. You find yourself looking around trying to identify the owner of the voice! Someone from our familiar place - 'home'. We've never met, yet we know one another, and suddenly life is good. <br />
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We South Africans, also speak a different language - trunks are boots, traffic lights are robots, cookies are biscuits, cubbyholes are glove boxes, flickers are indicators. We drive on the left side of the road, and we don't know how to give directions <i>"go to the robot, then turn left, and cross over two streets, then turn right at Kentucky Chicken"</i><br />
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Maybe it's the red dust, but sunsets in Africa are like nowhere else in the world. Neither is the smell of the first drops of rain on the earth. Or the spectacular lightning shows that light up the sky. And sunshine. Hot bright sunshine virtually all year round. Here you see, there are two seasons rather than four - the few months of winter, cold, but with bright blue skies. <br />
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South Africa is beautiful. There's semi desert, there are rolling hills, stony mountain crags, beautiful beaches and then ... then there's the African Bushveld. That's when I know I've come home. The smells. The Acacia trees. The Elephants. Those red sunsets. The wide open spaces where the animals roam, and bright stars in clear night skies.</div>
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There are no words to describe the feelings boarding a 747 with the South African Airways livery, or the overwhelming emotion when those wheels first touch down on a runway at Johannesburg's O.R. Tambo International Airport.</div>
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This is the Africa I love, and the one you will too if you ever have the opportunity to visit. But be warned, prepare to be ever changed. While you may leave Africa, Africa never leaves you. It's in your blood. It flows through your veins.<br />
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<i><span class="body"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">If there are dreams about a beautiful South Africa, there are also roads that lead to their goal. Two of these roads could be named Goodness and Forgiveness.</span></span></i><br />
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Beach is the Wordhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04536827105400754158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006401824797123973.post-83866197640646957592013-02-05T18:39:00.000-08:002016-05-22T17:08:17.928-07:00I Take Thee, Slanket<div style="text-align: justify;">
Yes, I must confess - as I hang my head in shame - I'm one of THOSE people.<br />
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It's a rich caramel color which blends nicely with the colors of my sofas - living room <i>style </i>is, after all, what's important, right? You're thinking, style? Did she really just say <i>style</i>? A blanket with sleeves HAS no style!!<br />
Don't we hate hospital gowns because they have openings at the back? Don't we hate a rush of cold air? Then tell me please, how this is different.<br />
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Just the word 'Winter' causes me to shiver. It's a time of dread that begins around June 22 - that slow descent to the dark place that can choke the life right out of you, or shall I say, me.<br />
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People who love the snow and relish each and every opportunity to snowboard, ski, snowshoe and more, have my respect because in a perfect world, my perfect world, there would be just three seasons. Warm, Warmer and Warmest.<br />
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Now you're shaking your head in disbelief. The romantic in you is imagining a white winter wonderland, lying on a bear rug in front of an open fire enjoying a glass of eggnog, all cuddled up warm and cozy with the special person in your life - not bundled up wading through slush, shoveling snow or playing dodgem cars in the (ice rink) parking lot. My romance with 'The White Stuff' begins and ends with a snowball - or two, and making snow angels with my children when they were younger.<br />
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It's precisely at this time when the grip of winter is at its tightest that the call of the home I love - Africa - is its loudest. You see this little picanin (a Zulu word meaning small child) was born in the land of the wild, of red clay earth, of spectacular thunderstorms and.... year round sunlight. </div>
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Sadly fantasizing about hot Summer days lying at the pool enjoying a long cool drink (with an umbrella in it) must be left for another day. It's time to don the Slanket, sit under a sunlamp and contemplate what life would be like...... as a BEAR! Sleeping for half the year, no restrictive diet, and no need for painful waxing.<br />
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One of the Girlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04859100915720155996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006401824797123973.post-27253737647266540042012-09-03T12:55:00.000-07:002013-05-19T00:54:03.210-07:00Deep Dark Depths of a Bottomless Pit<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
Handbags. They sit on a shelf of my closet. They are pretty, they are stylish. They are bulky and well worn. They come in all shapes and all sizes. They are in fashion, they are out of fashion (but if I wait long enough), will no doubt be in fashion again. Even those impractical compact clutch ones.<br />
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Gone are the days (thank goodness!) when the handbag needed to be repacked each night in order to match the shoes, which needed to match the outfit for the next day. Such turmoil when the weather changed unexpectedly and caused wardrobe malfunction. Yes! We know the<i> real </i>meaning of wardrobe malfunction!<br />
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Celebrate the arrival of the ‘hold all’ - and no kidding, they hold all, and more. They don’t need to be a particular color, size or shape. They don’t have to match - anything. They can just be. Sitting on the front seat of the car, on the floor, balancing on a counter top or hanging on their very own special hook strategically placed behind restroom doors!<br />
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If we are what we eat (drats!), and become like those we associate with, have you ever stopped to wonder what the contents of our handbags say about us? What secrets do they keep? </div>
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<li>Wallet, now a different color from the bag, in an attempt to make it easier to find in Bottomless Pit. </li>
<li>Two pairs of reading glasses. Different strengths, one pair which doesn't help my vision at all (Am I carrying one for a friend just in case?) Correction, make that three pairs. Yet another strength.</li>
<li>Chapstick - in every pocket. </li>
<li>A sympathy card I've forgotten to mail :( </li>
<li>Orbit whitening gum - freshens breath as it whitens. Multitasking at its best.</li>
<li>Makeup pouch - more chapstick, lipgloss, blush, foundation touch-up, lash lengthening mascara and eyeliner. </li>
<li>Kleenex</li>
<li>A few crumpled receipts - gas station, health food store, certified mail tracking slip, Indian restaurant.</li>
<li>A CD I've been wanting to play in my car </li>
<li>Small cosmetic bag containing dental floss, tweezer, nail file, yet another chapstick, antacid tablets and headache pills for emergency situations. </li>
<li>A book - <i>Return to Peyton Place. </i>It looks well worn. I've yet to read one page.</li>
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<li>Two pens.</li>
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Is this what we can conclude about me? I have poor vision (thanks to the 'aging thing' again), I like white teeth and a fresh breath, enjoy spicy food which creates a need for antacid, drive a car, squint in bright sunlight, have intentions to read, must constantly moisturize my lips and hands, can be tearful, enjoy music, come prepared for emergencies, need to make notes as the memory is not as good as it used to be.<br />
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Oh, and that I have one shoulder higher than the other, thanks to the weight of Bottomless Pit. <br />
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What does your handbag say about you? Turn it upside down. Go on, I dare you.<br />
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One of the Girlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04859100915720155996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006401824797123973.post-34057197186655485102012-04-03T14:15:00.000-07:002013-05-19T00:47:49.127-07:00And the Magic Number is .........<div style="text-align: justify;">
I recently celebrated, if one can call it that, the beginning of another trip around the sun, also known as my birthday. <br />
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I'm not a lover of birthdays. At all. I'm uncomfortable being the center of attention, being showered with gifts and being forced to face the reality that I'm one year older.<br />
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In my mind, you see, I'm 38. Not almost 39. Not 38¼. Just plain old 38. If age is just a number, I can choose anyone I want, right? (Denial. Not just a river in Egypt).</div>
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Perhaps you'll identify. The brain saying one thing, the body saying another. In my case, the latter speaks volumes - especially when I look in the mirror and a stranger looks back at me!<br />
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Shriek! Who are YOU and what have you done with ME!?<br />
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People will say, "You don't look your age". What do they mean by that exactly? I've yet to figure it out.<br />
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My checkbook, on the other hand, <i>has</i> figured out that little ol' me has contributed to the billion dollar industry of anti-aging creams, incredible-lift foundations, mineral make up and under eye concealer, and yet there is no evidence of the flawless, dewy, line-less, photo ready, ageless complexion that clever advertising would have me believe I will have. Has it stopped me from perpetually adamantly announcing to the world, that regardless of my year of birth, I am eternally 38? That would be uh, <i>no!</i><br />
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Until my recent epiphany.<br />
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It occurred to me that if I continue to say I'm 38, which I'm not, it may illicit a reaction (albeit not vocally) of 'oh, poor thing - she must have lived a really hard life'. If, on the other hand, I fast forward my age to say, 59, the reaction (hopefully!) will be 'wow, she looks really good for her age'. (Shhh, don't tell a soul, I'm feeling a sudden rush of years coming on). </div>
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When the big 5O was looming on the horizon, my family and friends were more than a little surprised to learn that although I would celebrate it, it would not be until I was considerably older, say 63. If I didn't feel my age, why should I have to celebrate (that word again) something that felt so foreign.<br />
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And <i>that's</i> when it dawned on me. Now that I'm '59', I'm only a few years away from 63, which means I have a <i>whole</i> lot of living to catch up on. <br />
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What's that I hear? Oh, L.I.F.E's calling .... just a minute, I'll be right there! <br />
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One of the Girlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04859100915720155996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006401824797123973.post-55387666281760827542012-01-21T17:38:00.000-08:002016-05-22T22:17:42.450-07:00Why, Oh, Why - Why!Dear Blog,<br />
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So good to see you have survived your first few days in cruel blog world without me, but now I'm back! Say you missed me! </div>
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Interesting few days and reactions to our new love affair, Blog. We are no longer a secret, the intimate details of our lives are being laid bare. A dear friend - you have yet to meet her - was sharing the news of your and my relationship with <i>Surprise</i> and <i>Excitement, </i>when <i>Confusion</i> and his cousin,<i> Disbelief</i> pulled up in a shining limo. Didn't take <i>What, How, When,</i><i> Where</i> and especially <i>Why</i>, to make an entrance.</div>
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<i>Surprise's </i>jaw dropped to the floor. <i>Excitement</i> jumped (she thinks) for 'joy' (I don't believe I've met 'joy', have you? ) <i>When </i>wanted to make a standing appointment, "you know there's writing involved, right?" <i>How </i>was preoccupied with logistics, and as for <i>Where, </i>well <i>Where </i>seemed concerned about safety, assuming that there would be writing or typing/texting in the CAR<b>!</b> <i>Disbelief </i>shook his head in amazement - hadn't there been a 'pinky swear' to <b>NEVER</b> have a blog. <i>Confusion</i> simply wanted to know from <i>Why,</i> 'why'? Good question,<i> Confusion. </i>Not sure there is a right or wrong answer.</div>
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A wise woman was once heard to say, 'left to wander alone inside our heads without supervision, is a dangerous thing! So with that in mind, I've decided my rambling mind should have company, and I've decided it should be <i>you!</i><br />
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One of the Girlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04859100915720155996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3006401824797123973.post-38914549244144293242012-01-03T02:57:00.000-08:002013-05-19T00:51:12.793-07:00New Year, New Passions<div style="text-align: justify;">
I imagine, if this was years ago, this first blog would start something like 'now as I sit me down to write'. That has such a romantic ring to it, don't you think, especially when you consider our new language is comprised mainly of acronyms that leave us reeling. Who can keep track of the brb (be right back) or the lol (laugh out loud, or lots of love, depending on the situation. Note that confusing the two could result in major embarrassment) imho (in my humble opinion) btw (by the way) - the lists go on, and on. I could even add my own here - mtmb (makes the mind boggle)! </div>
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But I digress. This is my first venture into Blogger World (hereinafter known as 'BW') It feels very foreign, more than a little intimidating and yet somewhat liberating at the same time, if that is even possible. Liberating or not, all kinds of questions race through my mind. What's the norm for BW, how often should I blog, what should I blog about, and probably the one causing the most anxiety, what if what I write adds no insight, value, humor to life. As if it wasn't daunting before, well, need I say more? Maybe - hopefully - those questions will be answered along the way, so here I go, sticking my toes into the water. Hold the towel ready!<br />
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